Yael, I love your writing, and especially the work you've done around feminine anger (which I have PLENTY of).
The best men I know are susceptible to the toxic-masculinity programming our culture forces down our throats, and they show signs of it or blind spots to it on a daily basis. It causes so damage to relationships and to people's lives; it really is part of a huge, overarching mental health crisis that is hurting everyone. I don't think you can have healthy societies that still uphold the priniciples of male dominance, misogyny, racism, and bigotry of all kinds, and I think our headlines reflect that. SO MUCH NEEDS TO CHANGE.
Thank you for doing your part and inspiring me, and others, to do ours.